Number 9: They neglect the emotional needs of their wives.
Narcissists are emotionally unavailable people; they don’t want to share their feelings and don’t want to connect emotionally with others. This means they don’t have much capacity for empathy, which is a core part of emotional availability. They neglect the emotional needs of their wives. They’re not just selfish but also emotionally unavailable, which means they cannot receive and respond to their wife’s emotional needs.
They fail to show affection, express interest in their partner’s interests and even listen to their Partners when they talk. Because of this neglect, narcissists’ wives can feel lonely, depressed, and anxious. They may have trouble forming meaningful relationships with others because they’ve been deprived of the love and support from a marriage with a narcissist.
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Number 10: They abuse their wives.
Narcissists often abuse their wives. They may do this physically, emotionally, or both. Some narcissists are violent and will hit their wives when they get angry. Other narcissists don’t beat their wives, but they may be verbally abusive. Narcissists are often very critical of their wives and put them down publicly and in private. They may also isolate their wives from other people, so they don’t have any support outside their relationship with a narcissist.
Narcissists treat everyone around them poorly because they don’t care about anyone other than themselves. They may seem Charming initially, but over time, you’ll start to see their true colors emerge. The Narcissist’s wife is often treated like an accessory or an object that exists only for the benefit of their husband. She will be expected to do everything she can to ensure that her husband feels good about himself, even if it means denying her own needs or feelings.
Narcissists don’t have genuine relationships with anyone, so it makes sense that they would only use their wives as a way to achieve their own selfish goals. They also use them to access resources and connections that would otherwise be unavailable to them.
Read More: 9 Things You Should Do When Attacked By A Narcissist.
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