10 Reasons Narcissists Hate You


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Number 6: They are jealous of you.

If narcissists are jealous of you, they will not only hate you but also try to make you jealous of them. Yes, it is surprising, but narcissism is a psychological disorder and you can expect a narcissist to do anything to feed their egos. According to a 2017 study, people who have a high level of narcissistic traits also called grandiose narcissists, induce jealousy in their partners to acquire certain goals and power. This shows that what a narcissist desires is attention by all means.

If you are praised because of your skills or sweet nature, narcissists will doubt you, get jealous of you, and eventually hate you. Jealousy is a true symptom of insecurity or incapability to achieve something. So if you feel that your narcissist colleague is jealous of you, it means they are not capable of achieving their goals and they can’t see you being successful either.

 Number 5: They are lectured because of you.

Narcissists don’t like being taught, and they learn less from their actions. Competition is essential for motivation but for narcissists, it only hurts their fragile egos. Narcissists can’t see anyone above them in any situation. Say for example your narcissist friend is lectured by his parents because of your achievement. What do you think his behavior will be?

 Don’t imagine that they will get motivated and work harder. No, never! Instead, they will start disliking you and try to harm you. They will either interrupt your way to success or negatively impact your reputation. When your friend should work hard to improve their position, they will try to make you lose so they can feel superior.

A Book: Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men.

Number 4: You don’t agree with them.

 One word that narcissists never want to hear is No. Don’t dare say no to them, especially in unfavorable situations, because it will end badly. For example, your boss is a narcissist who, like the Queen of Hearts in Alice in Wonderland, wants her employee to do what she desires despite all the advantages and disadvantages. In this situation, if you dare say “No, you are wrong,” or, “No, it can’t work this way,” then you might count this day among the worst in your life.

 This type of managerial narcissism if encountered always creates chaos. You will be counted among their top enemies, which is not good, at least for your job.

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