Number 9: They don’t care about you.
Narcissists are not concerned with your feelings and don’t care about your well-being. They’re only interested in themselves and how they can use everyone around them to get what they want or feel better about themselves. You were just an object to them, a way for them to feel superior to somebody else. It doesn’t matter how much effort or love you put into the relationship.
Narcissists only care about using people for their benefit and then throwing them away when they are no longer helpful. They will say whatever it takes to get what they want and won’t care if it hurts you, and they might even enjoy hurting you because it makes them feel powerful.
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Number 10: They are afraid of Abandonment.
Narcissists take being alone, even though they often make others feel like they’re not wanted. They are afraid of Abandonment and they are constantly worried that you’ll leave them and they must do everything they can to keep you around. They need others to validate their feelings, thoughts, and actions. They have such fragile egos that they need constant validation and reassurance that they’re still loved.
For narcissists, it’s all about control. They tend to be very controlling because they fear that others will leave them if they don’t control others. They want to ensure you’re never going anywhere so they’ll do anything to ensure you don’t leave them. They want things done their way, and when people don’t live up to their expectations or make mistakes, narcissists can react with anger or hurt feelings.
Narcissists are everywhere. When they’re the boss who always takes credit for your ideas or the friend who’s always looking for attention, narcissists can be hard to deal with. They can keep their true thoughts and feelings under lock and key, even from the people closest to them. If you know how to spot them, you can avoid their traps and get rid of them one day… These 10 Secrets will help you crack the code.
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