Number 1: Narcissists are not really that great at anything.
Narcissists aren’t really that great at anything; they’re just great at pretending they are. They’re not good at anything because they don’t care enough to be good. Narcissists want to convince you that they are so that you’ll give them what they want in exchange for the illusion of their competence.
Narcissists tend to overestimate their abilities. They might think they’re more talented than they really are or more popular with anyone. But when it comes to actual performance, the stuff that matters, their egos just aren’t backed up by reality. Narcissists don’t actually accomplish anything; they just think they do.
Number 2: Narcissists will never admit they’re wrong, even when they know it.
Narcissists will never admit they’re wrong, even when they know it. They’ll never admit it, it’s like an allergy to the truth, they can’t be near it, let alone start to digest it. Narcissists believe they are superior and entitled to special treatment.
So when you point out that they were wrong in something they did or said, you’re pointing out that you know more than them, why? Because they don’t see themselves as being on equal footing with anyone else. Narcissists will always think they’re always right, and they’ll let you know. They’re so good at being right that they can’t even admit when they’re wrong.
Number 3: Narcissists can’t be trusted with secrets because they’ll turn around and use them against you.
Narcissists can’t be trusted with secrets because they’ll turn around and use them against you. They will use any secret information they have on you to manipulate or control you further down the line.
Narcissists will also use it as ammunition to discredit you in front of other people so that they can look better by comparison. Narcissists are notorious for using other people’s secrets against them. They do it because they’re insecure and don’t care about how their actions affect others. Narcissists are willing to hurt others to make themselves feel better.
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