Number 9: You feel like a burger.
This doesn’t mean that you suddenly get hungry after engaging in s£xµal Olympics with this particular person, but rather you’re flipped around the bedroom or wherever you might happen to be as if you were a burger. The narcissist or suspected narcissist picks you up, puts you down, flips you over, turns you this way, that way—not interested in whether you’re enjoying it or not, but it’s simply a performance. They are showing off, demonstrating their s£xµal prowess by banging you against the wall, by taking you from behind, by riding you into submission.
All of it is being done because they are essentially again just masturbating with your body. And in so doing, they have no interest in what you get out of it, but rather it’s the performance, where in their own deluded mind they are giving you the time of your life, whilst you’re there lying, “If only you keep me in one position rather than keep throwing me around the room, I might actually start to enjoy this.” Being treated as that proverbial piece of meat is both literal and metaphorical.
Recommended Book: Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men.
Number 10: S£x is used as an incentive or punishment.
Where the individual suggests that if you do something for them, you’ll be rewarded by some hanky-panky, or where you feel that you’re guilt-tripped into doing something because there is the threat of “you won’t get any s£xy time,” then in such circumstances there is a likelihood that you are dealing with a narcissist. S£x is merely a tool for the narcissist to get to the prime aims. For instance, if it’s such a thing as a residual benefit of you making something for the narcissist to eat, then the narcissist may well say to you, “Make me a bacon sandwich, and I’ll give you a good seeing to,” or “If you don’t do the shopping for me, you’re not getting any from me tonight.” The use of s£x blatantly in such circumstances as a manipulative tool is a strong indicator of what you’re being dealt with—that it is being used as a commodity in order to control you and draw other benefits from you.
These are 10 indicators that you’re having s£x with a narcissist. As I mentioned earlier, floating one or two does not necessarily mean that that’s the case, and the greater the number, the more likely that it is that it’s determinative. These are, of course, just ten examples, and there are many other signs that would support that you’re dealing with a narcissist.
Read More: 4 Scary S£xµal Habits of a Narcissist.
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