9. Your freedom.
If it’s up to the narcissist, you won’t get to make any decisions. Instead, they will be in control and you will just be following orders. They will tell you what you should and should not wear, the style, the color, and the outfits that they want to see you in. They will decide who you can spend time with, what you can do, and where you can go.
The narcissist will expect you to give up your freedom and surrender to their wishes in all aspects of your life. They want complete control and dependence because that feeds their ego and acts as confirmation of how important they are. Losing control is something they fear because it will threaten everything they stand for.
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10. Yourself.
They will treat you like they own you; sounds terrible but it’s true. They feel you belong to them, and they can do anything and treat you however they like. That means it doesn’t really matter if they treat you badly, since in their mind, you’re a possession and they can do with you whatever they want to.
The narcissist feels that they are the center of the world, and people close to them become extensions of themselves. They know best, and therefore, they should be in control.
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