7. Do not ever depend on them financially
Except for financial help, loan them money, or sign contracts with them. Having any financial ties to a narcissist is going to be a nightmare, I cannot stress this enough. Anything has to do with money only serves to either control you or take advantage of you, nothing else. if you loan them money, you will never see that money again. If you sign a loan with them, they will ruin your credit. If they want to financially support you, the goal is to control you.
Many narcissists believe if they financially support you, then that’s their free pass to abuse you whenever they feel like it. There is just no such thing as a free gift with an abuser. You will always pay the price in more ways than one. If you are financially dependent on a narcissist, you should immediately start taking steps to become financially independent.
It is so difficult to be able to protect yourself if they are the ones who controlled the finances. Do not get entangled with a narcissist and finances in any way, you will live to regret that.
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8. Don’t expect empathy or fairness
The biggest identifying trait of a narcissist is a lack of empathy. They are incapable of feeling empathy for other people. Empathy is based on the assumption that a person is worthy, or equal, or deserving of compassion.
Narcissists don’t believe anyone is equal, their grandiosity leads them to see others as either inferior or completely undeserving of compassion. Do not ever expect a narcissist to reciprocate normal human kindness, you will be disappointed every single time.
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