Number 2: The female covert narcissist is super passive-aggressive.
She will create arguments out of thin air by accusing you of being negative, being in a bad mood, having a tone, or a look, even though you’re a hundred percent fine and nothing is wrong, she just keeps pushing to find out why you’re mad until you actually are mad, or she baits you into fake fights by pushing other emotional buttons.
And once you react, it’s all about that, or maybe instead of accusing you of being mad, she may act upset, but then refuse to tell you what’s wrong, refuse to communicate about it, making you beg to find out, and beg for forgiveness without even knowing what she’s upset about. And after it’s all over, you look back and still you don’t even know where it came from or what it was about, and that’s because it’s all fabricated.
This is an attempt to discharge her negative emotions onto you, keep the upper hand, and keep you thinking that you are the problem.
Number 3: She is incredibly defensive.
And if you try to talk about something that’s important to you or something that’s bothering you, she will dismiss, minimize, or shut you down in other ways. She will not be open to hearing you out or to any sort of compromise.
If she’s done anything to contribute to the problem, even if the entire problem is something she’s done, don’t expect her to take any responsibility whatsoever or apologize to you. And if by some chance you do get an apology, it is a ploy to get you to see that you are ultimately to blame.
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