10 Ways You Can Make Narcissists Suffer


 Number 1: Ignore them.

Ignoring a narcissist is one of the most effective ways to make them suffer. Narcissists are frequently so preoccupied with their importance that ignoring them can be highly frustrating. It’s easy to do and can be done in various ways: You can directly ignore them by refusing to acknowledge their presence or failing to respond to their texts or emails.

You can also ignore them indirectly by not allowing them to insert themselves into your life. The key to making them suffer is demonstrating that you don’t care what they think or feel about you. This will make narcissists feel like they are losing control of their surroundings. It makes them feel weak and vulnerable, which narcissists despise the most.

 Number 2: Be confident in yourself and your abilities.

 A narcissist will avoid being around someone’s self-assured and confident. A narcissist will make you feel inferior to make yourself feel better and they will try to discredit you at every opportunity. Narcissists are often insecure and seek out people who will validate their inadequacy. It’s much more difficult for someone else to manipulate or control your actions when you’re confident in who you are and what you’ve accomplished. When someone challenges their confidence or acts as if they are better than them, narcissists become enraged. You’ll be less likely to fall into their traps, causing them pain.

 Number 3: Be happy with your own life.

 The easiest way to make a narcissist suffer is by being happy with your own life. Narcissists are so focused on their own needs and desires that they can’t stand it when others are happy without them. The best way to do this is to show them how content you are with your own life.

 Don’t lean on the narcissist for emotional support or validation. Find it somewhere else, find it in the things that make you happy: your friends, family, and hobbies. Narcissists don’t want you to be happy; it’s not that they don’t care about your happiness, they just want you to be miserable as possible so they can feel better about themselves. Don’t let a narcissist’s presence in your life stop you from being happy.

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