11 Warning Signs Of Gaslighting In Relationships


1. They tell blatant lies

Even though they are very aware that there’s no chance on earth, but you would believe these lies because they could just be so big. They will still stick to it with a completely straight face, but why? If they’re prepared to tell you a huge lie, they set a precedent that will always keep you off-kilter and that’s their goal.

2. Even if you have proof of them saying something, they will still deny that they ever said it.

 You could have been there in the room and heard them say something, but they will still later stick to their lie and say no, that wasn’t me, never said that.

 Now the reason for this, it’s an attempt to get you questioning your own reality and to accept theirs instead, because if you think to yourself, baby, I didn’t miss hearing that, you know I could’ve had a headache, I might have had a bit too much to drink, then if they think that you are not in control, you more likely to believe their lies.

3. Everything you hold near & dear is considered their ammunition

 Now they know what is important to you, they know that your kids are important, and they know how important your identity is, so those may be the first things they choose to attack.

 For example, if you have kids, they should tell you that you should not have had those children, and they will tell you that you’d be a worthy person if only you didn’t have a long list of all of these negative traits. Now they attack the foundation of your being so that you are uncomfortable.

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