1. You criticize one another!
Marriage is where you create bounds, encourage each other and help pave the way towards success for one another. Yet, when criticism quicks in, things start to take another turn, and chances are, it will end badly. Engaging in constant criticism of your partner may indicate that you do not appreciate what they do, you do not see hope in the actions they take on, and the last thing one would want is to be criticized and made conscious of their mistakes.
Instead, try to help each other, encourage each other and push one another towards success and make your partner feel that they are being appreciated for whatever they are doing and feel ambitious towards.
#2 is something many couples do as soon as they get married, but they don’t realize they’re just preparing themselves for divorce…
2. You divide a lot!
Getting your car, bank account, friends, and hobbies, you pave the way towards a complete division of both of your lives, and chances are, you will lose the emotional bandwidth gathering both of you since you will grow conscious of what is yours and what is not yours.
A better way would be to start gathering all the aspects and belongings of your life together. Get used to a mindset based on sharing, union, and partaking in everything you both own.
#3 is the reason there’s an epidemic of divorce among couples who have been married for 20 years or more…
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