6. You never communicate!
Feelings may quick around and may suggest that there is something off in your marriage, and perhaps you may start developing a separatist sentiment towards one another. At this stage, one should only communicate feelings, thoughts and express their concerns to one another.
Many marriages have been saved simply because the couple has decided to talk about their feelings and figure out what may be going on with them, what causes their feeling, and clarify to one another what their hearts hold.
7. You never consult before you act.
One would argue that buying a car, starting on a new job or project does not need consulting with your other half. After all, it is a personal matter. Tough, this is probably a faulty view. Since that marriage is a union based on love, trust, and gratitude, one should consult before making a step, ask for help and opinions.
Holy matrimony is never a singular affair; it is instead a collective one; it is a “we.” For that, if you care about your marriage, never hold back a plan on your mind.
#8 frustrates BOTH spouses, but doesn’t help either one of them…
8. You try to change one another!
They are forcing your husband or wife to change themselves, for whatever reason, maybe just the worse. At this time, one would never feel accepted for the person they are, and chances are, they will look away and seek divorce.
One should rather accept one another and make them feel that regardless of who they are and what they are, they shall always be appreciated for their uniqueness.
#9 is the biggest single step toward an eventual divorce…
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