Number 8: The guy who’s married or taken.
It might seem obvious that women should avoid such men but it’s not that easy. He could be the coworker you’re frequently paired with or the one with easy-going conversations. A married man is comfortable to be around because they’re somewhat emotionally and mentally stable. They draw their confidence from the consistent affirmation of their partners or the fact that they have a family to go back to.
That sense of responsibility can make them passionate about what they do. If this guy is your coworker, their friendship is settling. Not to mention, how easy conversations are because you won’t need to filter or impress the guy. When actual feelings start to be exchanged, it’s not easy to ignore that build-up. Sometimes, the attraction is just a build-up but if he promises to leave his partner for you, let him do it before committing to anything with this guy.
Number 7: The flashy lifestyle kind of guy.
This is a man who makes it obvious that he earns a lot of money. Such men are more interested in short-term sexual relationships. They’ll most likely not be invested in you or any children you have with them in the long-term. They’re not emotionally available and are more likely to cheat. Some will overwhelm you with gifts and classic dates in the early stages of the relationship. This is called love bombing and it’s a typical sign of a narcissist. Have a look at the series of articles on our website to learn more.
Number 6: The man who has just had a traumatic experience.
This includes losing his mom or someone who was a motherly figure or coming out of a long-term relationship. When such a thing happens, it triggers an identity challenge and breaks down the emotional defenses of the man. As a result, they are able to express strong feelings which might seem very authentic but won’t be available in the long term.
If you’re trying to support a man who’s been through such an experience, be sure not to be romantically involved with him. Clearly, state that you’re not available for an intimate relationship until such a time as both of you is sure that the trauma has passed.
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