Number 5: The passive man.
Men can be shy when they really like you and have no idea how you’ll perceive them. But have you met a man who won’t talk to you in person, but will always text you? This man is not just shy, he’s also non-committal. He might be entertaining you to keep you warm and cozy for the day when he comes demanding the big chops with minimal investment.
One who’ll only talk to you when he is high or drunk is also a passive kind of man. If you’re looking for a solid long-term relationship, this is a man who’ll struggle to make decisions that concern the two of you. It also tells you that the picture they have of you may not be long-term.
Number 4: The guy who has excessive baggage.
This includes but is not limited to childhood drama, a tough financial situation, or serious debt. The problem is not that he has been through such problems but how much of him is still stuck in these situations.
When you meet such a man, you feel a sense of purpose in the relationship and that’s very seductive to the nurturer in you. It’s possible to fall in love with the idea of who the man will be, which is not a foundation for a stable relationship.
Number 3: The overconfident workaholic.
This is the man who can pay his bills and can meet your needs but has no social life. When it seems more important to him that he’s making money than growing up, he has been socialized to believe that women mostly need a provider.
With such a man you might struggle to have conversations about money. Secondly, this is a man who’ll be looking for a housewife, not someone who’s his peer and can help make decisions financially.
A Book: Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men.
Number 2: The stingy man.
This man is clearly doing well for himself, but it always seems like a burden when you ask. He seemed okay with spending money on dates during the initial stages of your relationship, but after some time, he only has enough for weekends with his buddies.
We don’t encourage women to be overly dependent on their husbands. However, a man who’d rather spend money with his friends won’t be available for you when you need him to be financially responsible.
Number 1: The man without a dream or vision.
This is the guy who feeds off your nurturing and caregiving nature. He talks about his goals and bright future a little too often in a bid to encourage you. He likes to have the best in life, yet he conveniently counts on you to fund most things.
This is a man who’s not taking care of himself or is battling an addiction like drinking or gambling. You’ll find that the more you give, the more resentful you’ll feel towards him. You can’t fix him at the expense of yourself.
Read More: 10 Warning Signs You’re Dealing With An Evil Person.
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