Number 8: They don’t keep their promises.
At the moment, they might make a promise but never meant to keep it. They just say it because they thought it sounded good at the moment. But it was an empty promise from the start, they never had the intention to keep their word.
Number 7: They are hot and cold.
They can be completely different from one moment to the next. Think about that – it must be exhausting to constantly keep up the fake personality that they’ve created. Sometimes the facade crumbles and the real person shines through. And that real person might not be someone you’d like to have in your life, even for a second.
Number 6: They act all excited to see you.
You know it’s just an act when this person pretends to be so happy to see you, but you know the friendship isn’t that close, and they haven’t even returned a message you left months ago. It’s easy for them to ignore you. Don’t be fooled by the act they’re putting up!
Number 5: They don’t appreciate others.
Life is just about themselves. They are more likely to find fault in others than to find something to praise or give compliments for. They are very critical of others, always on the lookout for flaws (which might be real or invented). They might also, inwardly, be very critical of themselves, but this they would like to keep under wraps. Bringing another person down means you are dominating them, you are better than them. This is what they are trying to do.
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Number 4: They’re passive-aggressive.
This is the kind of person who will give you a backhanded compliment. They will say something that could be interpreted in different ways – it may sound like a compliment, but actually, they are insulting you. They like to think of themselves as very clever – so clever that they can insult you without you even noticing.
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