Number 3: Deliberately confusing you and convincing you that you are a monster.
The sheer joy a narcissist gets out of deliberately confusing you is highly satisfying to them. It’s a power trip that takes that ego to the ninth sky and gives them a god-like feeling. Because think about this, think about what can be more satisfying for a human as insecure as a narcissist than to know that they are in control of someone’s perception of themselves? They love to see you blaming yourself and berating yourself for being faulty. They knowingly create confusion and uncertainty in your thoughts and emotions by sending mixed signals, lying, or making contradictory statements. This leaves you questioning your own judgment and reality.
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Examples of these Mind Games include denying previous statements or actions or feigning affection or interest only to come across as a savior after destroying you. They get entertained when they find you constantly second-guessing your perceptions and decisions, and even doubting your own goodness, making you more susceptible to The Narcissist’s influence and manipulation. Their biggest goal is achieved when you believe that you are the monster and everything is your fault.
Read More: How to Confuse a Narcissist.
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