Number 5: They will use and manipulate you to the extent.
Narcissists are someone who thrives on using and manipulating other people. Them being obsessed with you is not out of romance, but it’s out of dreaming that you will be the perfect victim, not the Partners they can get. So, one of the signs a narcissist is obsessed with you is that they stay with you for a long time; that means you have been serving them their supply all in that duration.
Narcissists also do not stop using you if they do not use up all the supplies they can get from you. They annihilate everything they own to make sure no one will ever get to use them but themselves. They may also feel satisfaction when they see someone so full of life, in the first place become just a shell of their being because of their doings. Narcissists are evil personified, they don’t have any remorse for using and manipulating you all the time; which is why you shouldn’t also feel any guilt or fear about leaving them.
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Narcissists aren’t someone who can take care of you. If you stay with them, you will get burdened by the responsibilities you have to take just to save your relationship with them, add all the blame and mistakes they redirected towards you. What a miserable life you would have if you decided to stay with them! No one can understand a narcissist fully, not even narcissists. So don’t beat yourself up and think you weren’t enough to change or help them.
Narcissism has no cure. The only thing close to that is their willingness to go to therapy, and this is something you can’t do for them. Instead, cater to your own needs. Dealing with narcissists creates too much damage, and Recovery could take years. My only hope is you get to the healing you need.
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