Lesson 3: Limit contact with anyone who sides with the narcissist.
The third lesson follows on nicely and it’s to cut off or limit contact with anyone who sides with the narcissist. Any friend of the narcissist is no friend of mine and will never be trusted again. The flying monkeys who believe the narcissists have to be avoided because they will just be feeding information back to the narcissist and maybe working with the narcissist against you.
Lesson 4: Trust your instincts.
The fourth lesson that narcissists teach us is that we must trust our instincts. At some point, we would have had that uneasy feeling that made us question the sincerity of the narcissist, but we pushed those feelings aside and continued anyway. I believe there is darkness with the narcissist that we subconsciously pick up on, but because what we feel does not line up with what we see before our eyes, we take those feelings for granted.
Never doubt your instincts. Do not suppress them, but try and tap into what they are trying to tell you, which may mean giving that person a time out where you step back from the relationship to see how you feel and even more importantly, to see how they react to it.
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