5. His/Her Promise to You May Never Be Fulfilled.
There were those times when s/he told you: “I will never let you down, you are the only one for me.” Or, “I love you more than life itself.” As real as s/he sounded, you may need the truth to start dawning on you that s/he may never fulfill those promises. S/he probably said them to you at the spur of the moment, at the peak of the emotions, or to get you convinced.
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Empaths being trustworthy will tend to believe wholeheartedly. Even when things are falling apart, then we still want to cling to false hope, believing that against all odds, things would be better. Again, the empaths have to face facts and realities, not fallacies and false hopes.
6. True Love Will Stand Against The Test of Time.
Sometimes empaths need to know that love no matter how true is not enough. They feel they need to be the best for other people and this can influence them to become better. As much as this could work for some people, this definitely will not work with narcissists.
Narcissists gain fulfillment in self-gratification they aim to place themselves. Therefore, no matter how much love you shower on them to change them to become better people, the truth is they may never be inspired by such self-sacrifice.
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