7 Signs You’re In a Non Narcissist Relationship

3. They’re happy with one love

If someone isn’t a narcissist, they’re not scared of commitment. They find it easy to love and care for another person. They don’t need lots of people chasing after them or constantly looking for someone new. They’re happy being in a relationship with just one person.

They’ll support you, make you feel loved, and show you that you matter. Your relationship means something to them, and they’ll try their best to keep you happy. They’re even willing to make sacrifices because they value what you have together.

But narcissists are different. They want lots of attention from many people. If they feel like they’re not getting enough from one person, they’ll look for it somewhere else. That’s why they often don’t want to commit — they like to keep their options open.

4. They don’t play games with your heart.

When it comes to love, someone who isn’t a narcissist acts like an adult. They’re honest with you, and you can count on them. You don’t have to wonder if they care about you — they show it. You always know where you stand with them, and the relationship feels calm and natural. They treat you with kindness and respect, and they never hurt you on purpose.

But narcissists are the opposite. They often try to make you jealous by flirting with others or bringing people around. One minute they’re warm and loving, the next they’re cold and distant. They lie, twist the truth (gaslight), ignore you for long periods (silent treatment), and make you feel like you’re going crazy.

If you don’t do what they want, they might get really angry, even over small things. You’ll often feel unsure and anxious in the relationship — and that’s how they like it. It keeps them in control.

5. They will say they’re sorry and admit when they are wrong.

If someone isn’t a narcissist, they can admit when they’ve made a mistake. They won’t have a problem saying “I’m sorry” when they’ve done something wrong. They’ll take responsibility for their actions and be honest with you when they mess up. Their apology will be real and come from the heart — because they care about your feelings and want to make things right.

But a narcissist is different. They don’t like to admit they’re wrong, and they almost never apologize. Instead, they blame you for everything. No matter what happens, it’s always somehow your fault. On top of that, they’ll pick on your flaws and make you feel like you’re the problem.

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