7 Signs You’re In a Non Narcissist Relationship

6. They give to you and don’t expect anything in return.

When someone isn’t a narcissist and does something nice for you, it’s because they truly want to make you happy. They don’t keep score or expect anything in return. You don’t owe them — they gave to you because they care.

They don’t look for attention or praise for being kind. They help others because it’s the right thing to do, not because they want something back.

But narcissists are different. They help people only when they want something in return. They use kindness as a way to control others. They remember every little thing they’ve done for you and will remind you of it if you don’t do what they want. They expect your world to revolve around them and get upset if it doesn’t.

7. They are humble and treat people like they’d want to be treated.

If your partner isn’t a narcissist, they don’t need to be the center of attention. They don’t look for praise from others, and they don’t chase after new love interests. They’re down-to-earth, treat people with respect, and try to treat others the way they’d want to be treated.

They don’t care about status, money, or fame. They believe all people are equal, no matter how much someone has. If they love you, it’s because of who you are, not what you have or how you look.

Narcissists, on the other hand, think they’re better than everyone else. They feel like they deserve special treatment and want constant attention. They’re often rude, critical, and only want to be around people they see as “important” or high-status.

But if the person you love is not like that — if they are kind, honest, and real — take a moment to appreciate them. Real love, with someone who truly cares about you, is something special.

Not everyone is lucky enough to have that.

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