Number 7: They don’t respect your boundaries.
Has your partner crossed a line you’ve clearly set over and over? Maybe you shrugged it off once or twice because they said, “Hey, just try this. You’ll have fun,” or “It’s a joke. Why are you so sensitive?” It’s even worse when you’ve told them multiple times something like, “I tried it and I didn’t like it. And I don’t find it funny,” yet they keep ignoring you. It means they’re pushing their wants over your feelings. And it’s a typical scenario for people who are not afraid to use others to get what they want.
Read More: 10 Warning Signs You’re Dealing With An Evil Person.
Silence can often be mistaken for agreement, so it’s important to speak up about your concerns. But if you do, and they come back with comments like, “Why are you making a big deal out of this? Just do it.” or “You don’t really love me,” it means they’re treating you more like an object they can control than a person.
Number 8: The relationship feels stagnant.
Relationships are meant to grow and change. Sure, you might find a comfortable rhythm, but there should always be sparks of joy and moments of newness in your time together. But if your relationship isn’t growing or feels stuck, it may be time to examine your relationship. Like, if you’ve been living together for years, talked about marriage early on, and still don’t get proposed to by your partner on your 10th anniversary, it’s definitely time for a serious chat.
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