7. What are some of your deepest hurts?
If you were to ask a narcissist that question, they would just look at you like: “Why would you ask a stupid question like that?” “I don’t have any hurts.” I mean, sometimes they may actually say, “you know these people over here, they weren’t very good.” Or these people over here, I didn’t like the way they handle it.” They will try to change the topic.
But then, what they do is they’ll say that doesn’t bother me. It’s just their problem, and so they don’t admit that they struggle, or they’ve had strain and tension. But at the end of it all, they have to come out looking like, I’m strong, I’m better than all that, you may have hurts, but I don’t. Then, when you think you don’t have any hurts, why are you so mean? Or why are you so caustic? Or why are you so rude to other individuals?
You had to learn there from somewhere, and they don’t understand that illustrates that they’ve been on the receiving end of some improper treatment, but their notion is the way that I show that I’m strong. I won’t admit it. I’m above all that kind of stuff. The rest of you have Weaknesses. But in healthy relationships, we understand admitting weaknesses is a strength, that’s something that’s lost on the narcissist.
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8. Why do you go silent?
Sometimes, in their ways of dealing with you, they’ll just kind of give you the silent treatment, and they just ignore you. Or they’ll pull back and they’ll withdraw, they keep secrets, they don’t let you know what’s going on, and it’s all part of their fear, of course, and it’s all illustrates that they can have propensities towards passive-aggressive anger, they get their anger out, but with the least amount of vulnerability.
So those are some questions that a narcissist can’t answer. They can’t be open. They can’t access the interior of themselves. Now, as you observe these kinds of things, I’m hoping you’ll have an entirely different mindset that you can draw upon.
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