Number 5: They keep dropping by unannounced to check up on you.
Narcissists are great at spotting vulnerable people and using that to their advantage. If you’re lonely or feeling down, it might seem like a nice gesture when they stop by unexpectedly to see how you’re doing. But if they’re doing it more than once or twice, probably not so innocent. They might just be checking up on you because they want to know if anyone else has your attention right now. Narcissists want to make sure that their control over you isn’t slipping. It might also be that they’re trying to keep tabs on you, so they can find ways to sabotage your relationships or get back at you for something.
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Number 6: They make a lot of suggestive comments about sex or relationships.
If a narcissist is flirting with you, they may not be doing it in the most obvious or traditional way. They’re probably doing a lot of things that make you uncomfortable; they might even touch you inappropriately. They won’t say: “Hey, I think I’m falling for you”, instead, they’ll make a lot of suggestive comments about sex or relationships. The problem is that these kinds of comments come across as normal for some people because many people are open about sex and relationships. But a few suddenly start feeling like someone is making it very clear that they want to get physical with you and fast, that’s usually a sign that something isn’t right.
If someone makes these kinds of comments to you, it’s essential to be aware of what’s going on and what your boundaries are. If this person is making you uncomfortable, tell them their behavior doesn’t feel right to you and that they need to stop immediately.
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