7. Expecting Credit For Raising The Daughter.
The seven sign of a narcissistic mother is the idea of a debt that cannot be repaid. So what this means is the narcissistic mother sacrificed tremendously to have a daughter. And in doing so, really incurred this debt that can never be repaid by the daughter. She wants the daughter to be impressed by the sacrifice. And if the daughter is not impressed by the sacrifice, the daughter is ungrateful. And again, a disappointment. So we see a really clear theme kind of emerging through these different signs.
8. Conditional Approval and Love.
The narcissistic mother gives approval or, in a sense, love as a reward for doing what she wants. This means that there’s no unconditional approval or love. It’s all based on the performance of the daughter. And I think some would argue that really conditional love. And that’s what this is really creating, is not really love at all. If the daughter has to win or gain through her own performance approval or love, is that really the same thing as love is that we’re really talking about when we talk about love.
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