6. Focus on your strengths/ Securities.
Lastly, what you want to do when you’re feeling insecure in a relationship is you want to focus on your strengths. I find that this is just a really simple way to start to reach from your mind and just turn everything around. If you’re constantly focusing on your faults, your weaknesses, or your fears, whatever you feed, that is what is going to grow.
So if you’re able to start making even a list of all the wonderful qualities about all your strengths, all the things that you are secure about whether it’s in yourself, the person you’re with, and your relationship, then make that list and put it somewhere where you can see it. Put it on the wall, put it on the back of the door so that you can constantly have a visual reminder to remind your brain of all the great things that are going on in your life.
You want to start making decisions out of this mindset of strengths rather than a mindset of fear.
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That is my advice for you, if you’re feeling insecure in a relationship or have some insecurities in your relationship, remember, a lot of the time we build things up to be more so than what they are pure because of our fears of what’s going to happen to the future, based off what has happened in the past.
Don’t ignore your insecurities and don’t ignore your anxieties because they are there for a reason. And don’t ignore your intuition as well. Sometimes they’re there to actually warn you, but we want to make sure that you’re having a rational mindset about it so that you don’t blow it up to be something that it actually isn’t, and that you don’t ruin your relationship or your chances at love.
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