Have you Hurt the Narcissist’s Feelings – When They Overreact


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2. To Incite Drama.

 Another reason the Narcissist would overreact is to cause drama. Narcissists love drama. So, when things are getting a bit too boring for their taste, be prepared for tantrums. Be prepared for pointless arguments. Be prepared for a break-up, only to make up a few minutes later. And be prepared for the confusion! Because that is the least of what you will get when the Narcissist overreacts to the smallest misunderstanding.

 And there are bound to be many misunderstandings when a Narcissist is looking for drama. They will attack you on your tone of voice, how you looked at them, what you say or did not say. Because when the Narcissist gets bored, they are looking to be entertained and they are willing to hurt and upset anyone closest to them to spice things up.

A Book: Should I Stay or Should I Go?: Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist- By DR.Ramani Durvasula.

Narcissists only care about how they feel, and they are willing to upset you in order to improve their mood or to just make themselves feel better. Narcissists can be intentionally irrational and unreasonable to get the desired response from their targets. But like everything a Narcissist does, it is best to remain unbothered and do not let their mood swings affect you.

 If they want to get angry or overly emotional, it is their choice. We should just ensure we don’t get taken up in their confusion. They can be very dramatic. They are very good actors and actresses, and those who are not aware of this can be easily fooled and play right into their hands.

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