9. Closure.
The ninth thing a narcissist cannot give you is closure. Closure is all about getting some answers or having a sense of finality. Narcissists do not provide closure during a relationship or after a relationship. Narcissists do not like having difficult conversations when they are the ones in the wrong. So, things are usually brushed aside or left unresolved. In addition, narcissists do not like being questioned about why they did or said something. Therefore, manipulation is key to keeping the blame off them. Seeking closure from a narcissist will only frustrate and emotionally drain you. Narcissists cannot give closure when they have a need to avoid closure.
A Book: Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men.
10. peace.
The tenth thing a narcissist cannot give you is peace. Chaos and confusion abound when a narcissist is around because this is the type of environment in which they thrive. So, if a narcissist is in your life, their aim is to stir things up. Drama makes things more interesting for the narcissist. So, they will gossip, lie, and slander to turn people against each other. Narcissists cannot give you peace because they do not want peace. All they want is negativity, drama, and lies.
But to conclude… Narcissists cannot give what they do not have or what they do not want you to have. A life of misery is the only thing a narcissist can give you and wants to give you. This is why I would not recommend anyone to invest their time or life into a narcissist. The fact is that narcissists only think about themselves and how others can contribute to their existence. Narcissists are only capable of using people to fulfill their wants and needs. They want you to pour everything good into them while they give you nothing but negativity in return.
Read More: 7 Traits of a Person Who Has an Evil Heart.
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