Number 7: “I didn’t listen to your voicemail.” Or “Read your email or your text.”
In other words, I’m not interested. And you don’t matter much. In fact, you don’t even register on the radar. That’s the message that you’re sending when you say to a narcissist, “I didn’t read it.”I didn’t listen to it”, and not another word. You’re letting them know you don’t even matter. You don’t even register on my radar at all. Not interested Bill.
And the truth is, that’s a devastating message to send to an emotionally, psychologically, mentally, and spiritually ill, destructive narcissist who needs others to see them through their lens of their egotistical delusions of grandeur in order to know that they’re alive.
Number eight: “That’s not right.” “That’s incorrect.” Or, “you’re wrong.”
And silence. Learn to use silence as the powerful weapon that it can be with these critters. Literally, this is enough to turn their overinflated ego and full sense of self into complete and utter dust in the wind. And again, mission accomplished.
Number 9: “You’re a liar, a coward, or a bully.”
You know it, and I know it is the point that you’re making. You know it, you know you’re a liar, a coward, and or a bully. And I know you’re a lying, cowardice, bully. Period! And when you make that crystal clear statement, “You’re a liar,” or “You’re a bully,” and they come back with, “I don’t care. ”I don’t care that you know, “I don’t care what anybody thinks of me.” Simply say: “Oh, you care. “You care a whole lot. “You know it.” And I know it. “That’s the truth.”
And truly, this is all it takes to completely annihilate, to completely deflate this false, fragile little ego. Like this grandiose sense of self, this fragile ego, this false persona that they work so hard to project to the world. You come along with the truth, super succinct, super clear, pop. Game over. Mission accomplished.
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