Number 10: “Beat it.” Or, “scram.” Or, “get lost now.”
And make a little hand gesture while you’re at it. Say this with a, you are dismissed now tone. And watch their jaw drop. And make sure they know you’re serious. You’re not playing. Okay? It’s important that they know that you are fully prepared to go to the next level. You will call the authorities if necessary, you will get a restraining order if necessary, and you will humiliate them in public if necessary. Make sure they know you’re serious. You’re not playing.
Remember, these people are fully cowards at their core. Forget the false phony persona and all of this that goes on. We’re talking about cowards at their core here, right? So when they know that you’re serious and that you aren’t playing, again, it’s game over with these little creatures. And again, if you’re going to use any of these tactics, please be sure you’re doing so from a place of strength and certainty that you and others are safe. No harm is going to come to yourself, your children, your pets, or, the elderly, or anyone else who may be vulnerable.
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So these are not tactics that we use with high spectrum personality disordered individuals who are really sick and likely to be very destructive and dangerous. But these strategies, these tactics will work really well for your average destructive narcissist, your average individual, who is empathy impaired, lacking in conscience to some degree, really toxic, really selfish and self-centered, really entitled, maybe addicted. Like, could be that you’re dealing with an alcoholic and or addict in your life who has a lot of narcissistic traits.
For the average garden variety individual whose nose is embedded firmly in their navel, hanging on to their little toesies, causing all kinds of chaos and drama everywhere they go, these strategies will work really, really well. And again, brace yourself for the backlash. They are, I repeat spiteful, little creatures. They don’t play fair. They don’t have limits and they don’t have boundaries. And you can check out this article if you want to set boundaries with a narcissist.
Read More: 10 Awful Things Narcissists Do To Their Wives.
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