3. You’re Unattractive.
If we are empaths, we are easily attracted to narcissists. But for ordinary people, they can easily stand up and fight for their freedom. When you comment or say to a narcissist that they are unattractive, they would lose their confidence and shut themselves in their room.
Narcissists gain self-confidence based on their appearance and saying that they are unattractive destroys their ego and makes them afraid to face the public. Is your narcissistic partner attractive or not? Your judgment is what matters.
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2. You’re a Failure.
When things dive down in your relationship, does your narcissistic partner blame you for it? If they do, then it’s time for you to stand your ground. Of course, as human beings we don’t want to hurt someone, right? But if you won’t stand up for yourself, who will? Your true friends will only be there to support you all the way, but the one who will fight is going to be you. That’s right! No one but you.
If you’re fed up with your narcissistic partner blaming you, say this powerful phrase, “You’re a Failure.” That will make narcissists feel that a spear has struck their hearts. You will get to see the narcissist break down once they hear the phrase, then they will leave you be. So have you tried saying it?
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1. You Don’t Mean Anything to Me.
These are the most hurtful words that narcissists will hear because this is the same as saying that your life has no meaning. Have you experienced being told by the exact same words? It hurts right? Are you going to recover immediately if you are being told? Or will it take some time to recover?
Narcissists value themselves highly, which is why if they heard those words, they will really lose their cool. Narcissists always want to create illusions in order for them to have meaning in their life. If someone comes and destroys it, then they will create the mindset of the world not wanting them. Have you ever heard that from someone you love? How did it feel?
So are you feeling relieved after hearing the 10 words or phrases you can say that destroy a narcissist? Well, in short, you have to face them head-on in order for them to stop pestering you. Also, in facing them, you have to be prepared for the consequences that will come.
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