1. You cannot help them
And you cannot love them enough. You cannot support them enough. And you cannot educate them enough. This condition is permanent. There is not any therapy known to actually help them, nor is there a cure, nor is there any medication that they can take that will help them. This is a permanent personality and character disorder. This isn’t like a mental illness that can be treated with medication.
So the first thing you need to come to grips with is to accept the reality that any attempts to make the circumstances better will be futile and will fail, it simply isn’t going to happen. The sooner a victim comes to a place of acceptance that there isn’t anything that can be done to help, the better.
And you have to understand this, no matter what the narcissist is telling you because you can only judge a narcissist by behavioral patterns, not ever onwards because they’re pathological liars. And their goal is to keep you at their disposal for as long as possible.
So they may lie and tell you what you want to hear, they’re gonna lie and say they understand, etc… But the reality is there is nothing you can do to help them because this is permanent.
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