7. The Grieving Process.
Grieve the loss of what was, and what never was. When we walk away from people we love, who for reasons that have nothing to do with us, are fundamentally and constitutionally incapable of loving us back, there will be a grieving process involved. Accept this, and don’t fight it. Don’t run from it, don’t deny it, and don’t medicate it.
Allow yourself to grieve the loss of what was, as well as what never was, and what will never be. This is where doing our inner child healing and recovery work can really serve us because often, it’s our subconscious wounded inner child, that aspect of ourselves, that’s actually doing the grieving.
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8. Redefine Your Definition Of Winning.
Learn how to win the battle without getting your hands dirty, without lowering yourself to their level, and rolling around in the gutter with them, and without allowing them to siphon your vital life force energy from you. In other words, take their power away by taking your power back.
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