Today we’re going to talk about what it actually means when the narcissist says I love you. So many of us struggle to understand why they say that to us if they don’t mean it? Or how could they possibly love me when they treat me so terribly?
First of all, I think it’s critically important to understand that we do believe that sometimes when they tell a person that they love them that they actually do mean it, but only in the capacity that they are able to comprehend love. What you have got to understand is that a narcissist definition and understanding of love is completely different than your definition and understanding of love.
So today, I’m going to try and shed some light on what exactly does the narcissist mean when they tell you that they love you.
I hear this question all the time from my clients, telling me that the narcissist seems so sincere when they tell me that they love me. I have such a hard time believing that isn’t true, and I’m not suggesting that it isn’t true. They may very well love you in the ways that they are capable of interpreting love. Because the reality is the narcissist understanding and definition of love is completely different than ours.
So today, I’m going to tell you the top seven things it means when the narcissist tells you they love you.
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