What Does It Mean When A Narcissist Says I Love You


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5. I love to exploit and take advantage of you

 When a narcissist says I love you, what he or she is really saying is that I love that I can exploit and take advantage of you. I love that I have the power to exploit you financially and emotionally. I love taking advantage of your kindness, your empathy, your unconditional love.

 Each time I am able to exploit who you are and what you have to offer, it validates that I’m special and superior. I love that each time you allow me to take advantage of you, I know the next time it will only get worse and worse. I love knowing how much abuse and exploitation you’re willing to accept for me.

 Eventually, I will leave you penniless, a shell of the person you once were when I met you, and I love thinking about how you are going to end up.

6. I love your expectations

 When a narcissist says I love you, what they are really saying is I love how your expectations of me continually decline as I only demand more and more from you. I love how you are settling for so little of me, yet you are continually struggling to meet my absurd and selfish expectations of you.

 I love that soon you will not expect anything from me as I am grooming and conditioning you to only focus on my happiness, my needs, and my wishes.

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