7. I love that you confront me about my abusive behavior.
When a narcissist says I love you, what they are really saying is that I love when you do confront me on my abusive behavior. I am able to turn myself into the victim of something you are or did. The power I have to make you feel responsible for things you never did and to believe that I am the victim is a never-ending stream of narcissistic supply for me and such superb entertainment.
I love how easily I can make you accept an absolute lie as truth. It keeps you off balance. It keeps you indebted to me. And it keeps you stuck in the hamster wheel of trying to be and do better to please me and to keep me happy. I love that you don’t know that you will never achieve the outcome you seek. You will never be good enough because I’m not going to let you.
I love that you will continue to fight for the version of me that is kind and loving to you, but that I know doesn’t really exist. I love that you are a player in this game of mine.
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