4. They will stalk and harass you.
They will stalk and harass you until you feel like the only way that you can get it to stop is if you just talk to them, if you just go back to them. They can’t just let you go because they have abandonment issues. Once they’ve been involved with you, they see it as that’s it for life; it’s like this unspoken contract that you agree to just by engaging with them, and they expect you to abide by these rules, which you have no knowledge about just because they thought it in their minds.
Recommended Book: Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men.
It’s really psychotic behavior, but this is how they think, and they expect you to see it in the same way. Once you meet the narcissist, it’s like there’s no escape. They will do whatever it takes to remain a part of your life, manipulating you into marriage, having children with you, having authority and control over your work, assets, or finances—anything where they can sink their claws in to remain a part of your life.
Normal breakups can be instant, or they may last up to a few weeks, but with the narcissist, it can go on for years or even entire lifetimes. They are self-absorbed and lack empathy. They are jealous and insecure. They have a strong sense of entitlement and an exaggerated sense of their own abilities and importance, which is really just a recipe for disaster.
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