When You Leave a Narcissist, This Is What They’ll Do


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4. Win You Back.

The fourth thing the Narcissist would do when you leave is actively trying to win you back. They would love-bomb you and beg for your forgiveness. They may claim to have changed or are now willing to work on themselves. They would feign taking accountability to get you to pardon them and give them another chance. The Narcissist basically wants to convince you that they can be better, or things will be different if you just gave them another chance. You cannot believe for one second that the Narcissist ever truly loved or misses you. The only thing they miss is the attention and or resources they got from you.

Recommended: Becoming the Narcissist’s Nightmare: How to Devalue and Discard the Narcissist While Supplying Yourself- By Shahida Arabi.

5. Have pity on me.

The Fifth thing the Narcissist would do when you leave them is get you to feel sorry for them. They may have genuinely hit rock bottom after losing you, they may have lost their job and have fallen into difficult times, there may be threats of suicide or it may all just be an act of desperation in order to get your attention once more. But whether the Narcissist has genuinely fallen on hard times or not, it is best to still tread carefully as a collapsed Narcissist is still dangerous. Helping a Narcissist to rise again will do you no good. They will only reward you with evil. Pity the Narcissist from a distance but do not allow yourself to be enthralled in their web of deceit once more.

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