Number 1: Hyper-vigilant.
You are hyper-Vigilant, you are continuously alert for your narcissistic wife’s next move, statement, or criticism to ensure you don’t offend her. You are forced to take defensive postures at all times and are in a stage of heightened alertness. You are being careful with your words because you don’t want to give her any admonition to use against you. You are worried about what she will do or say next, which causes you to lose a lot of sleep and fills your days with worries… you are now confined to the four walls of your very own house.
Number 2: You refrain from communicating.
You have cut off all communication with your close friends and family members… this is because they cannot comprehend what is occurring in your marriage or why you continue to be a part of it. They fail to see how authoritarian she can be and how much she has progressed since the two of you were married. Your loved ones and Friends believe you should sit down and figure out a solution if there is an issue. Nevertheless, hatred, mistrust, and resentment are the only things left between you.
Number 3: You believe you are responsible for everything.
When your narcissistic wife has abused you, it’s easy to believe that you are at fault for everything. You may blame yourself for the abuse your wife and children are experiencing, but the reality is that you are not to blame. Narcissistic wives often have an abusive personality type that causes them to blame others for their unhappiness or lack of success. They will try to make their husbands feel guilty and responsible for all their problems, even if the issues have nothing to do with him.
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