Number 6: You’re made to do things that you don’t like.
The narcissist, operating with a sense of entitlement, a lack of emotional empathy for you, an absence of boundary recognition, and a lack of accountability for their own behaviors, will often use malign manipulations to cause you to engage in behavior s£xµally that you find distasteful or even abhorrent. The narcissist, particularly where somatic or relied, will engage in a variety of behaviors where basically they’re up for anything—with no sense of boundary recognition, with no restraint upon those behaviors, and no due regard for you as a human being, because simply you are an extension of their desires and needs. The narcissist wants you to engage in particular s£xµal practices.
In some instances, you are given no choice whatsoever, and you find yourself being forced to do these things absent consent. In other instances, you are made to feel guilty if you don’t engage in it. There are pleading, possibly pity plays, guilt-tripping that takes place in order to coerce you into catering to these needs of the narcissist. Where you find that you are being made to do things that you don’t like and you express your disapproval, but it is ignored, counted, or deflected, you’re likely to be dealing with a narcissist.
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Number 7: Intimacy occurs very quickly.
You meet the narcissist that night; you’re enticed into bed. Of course, with any of these indicators of themselves, they are just indicators, but where you have a range of them and they’re repeated over a period of time, then they become more determinative of the individual that you’re dealing with. Intimacy will often occur very quickly with a narcissist. Again, this arises out of a sense of entitlement, an absence of boundary recognition, a lack of accountability for behaviors, and an absence of emotional empathy. The imposition of s£xµal activity upon you means that the narcissist is able to use this major weapon of addiction to get hold of you, to control you, to draw fuel from you, etc.
Because the narcissist is in a rush to bring you under control, particularly where the narcissism detects that you will prove a particularly useful appliance, then this is wheeled out at a very early juncture. You may find yourself being taken to bed at a very early juncture—maybe within mere moments of meeting the narcissist. You go on a first date, and there is an attempt to get you into bed to perform a s£xµal act, possibly not even before you get home. This is all done because the narcissist needs to assert control over you, and the use of s£x is a particularly good way of doing so.
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Number 8: The individual doesn’t climax or has difficulty doing so.
This is as a consequence of the fact that the act is too intimate and therefore feels like a threat to control to the narcissist. Therefore, the narcissist is unable to reach the point of release, and instead there is a retardation in that regard. Sometimes the hypers£xµalization of the narcissist reduces the amount of sensitivity, resulting in the fact that achieving orgasm becomes particularly difficult. Instead, they either don’t bother, or they sneak off to the bathroom to manually relieve themselves, and you find out afterwards. In other instances, it is a consequence of the act being that of intimacy, and the narcissism must guard against that, and this causes the prevention of the climax occurring.
For some narcissists, the idea of the climax is a threat to control because it’s caused by you rather than being caused by them. This is often the case with cerebral narcissists who feel, in essence, that their climax isn’t theirs and that you’ve caused it, and therefore that unconsciously is a threat to control because they haven’t decided that it should happen. You often find with those particular types of narcissists they’re more focused upon what you want rather than what they need, and that they essentially say that your pleasure is their pleasure. It’s all about the assertion of control.
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