12. No emotional maturity.
If you notice that your partner or even yourself are not able to congratulate them when they do something good. You don’t say how proud you are because you do not feel it. You are not happy when they are happy. And also if you haven’t an argument, you can’t see things from their side of the situation. You are very much in your own head, always trying to get your own needs and emotions fulfilled. This is a sign that you do not have emotional maturity.
And if it’s you or your partner that is lacking in that grown-up maturity sense, it’s a red flag and it means the relationship is going to break down in the future. So get out while you can.
13. You are attracted to other people.
A lot of the time, we get into a relationship and we expect it to last, we feel really uncomfortable when we think, Oh you know what, this really didn’t work out and I really wanted it to because they are amazing at this. Amazing at making me feel this way and you think, Oh gosh, we really have to part ways now.
And sometimes a lot of us will hide that. We will push it further down. And instead, to get those happy feelings, we lust about other people. We could lust about workmates, their friends, or it could be we are fantasizing about another relationship. So not someone an actual person, not someone we know but just the fact of having a different type of relationship.
And if those thoughts pop into your head, it’s because you are not happy, you are bottling it up, you’re pushing it away, and it’s a sign that eventually, you are just going to build up into this angry person and say, I’m not happy, I’m leaving you. And you may as well just end things at the start rather than drag it out.
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