4. Stability.
The fourth thing a narcissist cannot give you is stability. Narcissistic relationships are anything but stable. Narcissists can be very moody, and the way they treat you is never consistent. Narcissists like to keep people on an emotional rollercoaster to keep them mentally and emotionally unstable. They do this to gain control of the person and the relationship. Therefore, you cannot feel secure in a relationship with a narcissist; they seem to intentionally want to keep you guessing where you stand with them.
5. Support.
The fifth thing a narcissist cannot give you is support. And I am not just talking about emotional support. I am talking about when you need someone to defend you or help you with something. You tend to have this expectation with a romantic partner, a friend, a parent, or another close family member. But when this partner, friend, parent, etc., is a narcissist, you get the opposite. Because not only do they not have your back, but some of them are willing to join with your haters to bring you down. Therefore, you cannot rely on a narcissist because you will end up feeling alone, and you will definitely have to fight your battles alone.
6. Respect.
The sixth thing a narcissist cannot give you is respect. Narcissists respect no one. They have no regard for your feelings, wishes, or your rights. When they ignore you or ghost you, they are disrespecting you. When they take advantage of you, manipulate you, and look down on you, they are disrespecting you. Yes, narcissists can be polite, but it does not mean they respect you. They will smile to your face and say the right things, but once you turn your back, the smile becomes a frown, and they will stab you in the back.
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