Number 6: Do not try to beat them at their own game.
Narcissists spend all the time they have practicing the game of self-promotion. The amount of manipulative activities that carry out in a week is more than what some people do in a whole year. They are masters at their own game, the manipulation game, and they’ll do anything to always remain at the top of the ladder. For this reason, the narcissist doesn’t want you to challenge his authority or try to beat him at his own game, so the best thing you can do is remain who you are and be true to your values.
Read More: 10 Phrases Narcissists Use to Completely Control You.
Number 7: Loyalty.
Narcissists only want you to be loyal to them at all times, and immediately they start having doubts concerning your loyalty. They feel insecure, and the only way out is to cut you out of their net. They believe that if you’re loyal, they can be able to manipulate you any way they want and you’ll never complain. And they see you as a source of gratification and not as an equal to them, and for that reason, you’re expected to be subject to them at all times. The funny thing about them is they want loyalty but they never give loyalty to others.
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Number 8: Personalize their actions.
Narcissists easily feel threatened by other people, especially when their characters are being questioned by that person. So because of this fear, they first seek the advantage over everybody they come in contact with. The narcissist wants you to take everything he does personally, he wants you to always get angry or do something that shows you’re angry whenever he does something because that’s the only way he can gain access to your life and be able to manipulate you. Narcissists will target anyone who happens to cross their path. It’s not personal, it’s just what they do and they all have the same mindset when coming at you.
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