2. Narcissists enjoy causing chaos
They love chaos, causing problems, frustrations, and discord in their homes and in their relationships. You must remember, narcissists, are addicted to narcissistic supply as well as they are continually trying to fight off boredom, which can and does become devious and harmful to others. When the person who is creating and responsible for the chaos doesn’t have a conscience, and doesn’t feel empathy for others, and feels entitled to do whatever it is, he or she wants, to find pleasure and happiness.
So the narcissist accomplishes this by triangulating members of his or her family, or between the children, or with his or her co-workers or with friends. They may cause chaos by launching a horrific smear campaign against someone they feel threatened by or envious of.
They might seek out extra extramarital affairs to produce the chaos and the entertainment that they so desperately need to acquire and desire. But they love and thrive on chaos and discord.
A Wonderful Book: Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men.
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