1. Stop making the narcissist the center of attention.
The first thing that I want you to do, and this may be challenging, is to stop making the narcissist the center of attention. I want you to be aware of the tendency of catering to them. Because remember when you first met this person, you made them the center of attention in your life. You made them that. And now, it’s time to break that cycle and begin to pull focus back to you.
When you pull focus back to you, it means that you’re actually gonna start focusing on yourself, your needs, your wants, and your desires. I want you to ask yourself a question, when was the last time that you thought about your needs when you’ve been dealing with this narcissist? Because many of you are living with a narcissist, some of you were married to a narcissist, some of you have a mom or a dad who’s a narcissist. When was the last time that you thought about your needs over their needs?
That’s something to really think about. This is gonna take time and effort, but if we can break this cycle, it’s gonna make major changes in your life.
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