9. Someone who is Authentic.
The final thing would be someone who is authentic. It is the vein of every trait that I have just gone through. An authentic person is someone who is sincere in every aspect of their life. Honesty is their policy. With them, what you see is what you get. This again is the exact opposite of the Narcissist as they are fake, fake, fake and they want others to be miserable and fake like they are. In the mind of the Narcissist, Authentic people should not exist. Everyone must be fake like they are.
So, that is the end of my list but people who exhibit these behaviours around the Narcissist and have the added edge of knowing how Narcissists work are bound to make the Narcissist angry, irritated, uncomfortable, and make them retreat into their shell. The quicker the Narcissist can get out of their presence, the better. The Narcissist knows that this is someone who they will not be able to deceive and worst yet someone who could very well expose them.
So, to counteract this, the Narcissist usually finds an exit plan or does everything in their power to avoid this type of person. A person like this has truth on their side and the Narcissist hates truth. A person like this is true to themselves and others around them. They are not afraid to hear the truth or speak it and this makes them a danger to the Narcissist. They are the ones who the Narcissists fear the most because they are everything the Narcissist isn’t.
A Book: Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men.
Truth is the Narcissist’s poison or kryptonite and a person with these qualities or behaviours is a beacon of truth and they can put an end to the Narcissist. All the Narcissist can do is try and sow seeds of doubt and distrust about the person, hoping something sticks or they find someone who envies or hates this person as much as they do. So, that they can side with them in trying to destroy this person.
Narcissists hate everyone but especially those they are unable to manipulate and control. But more so those who have most of the qualities I have listed today. Because they have the ability to drive any Narcissist crazy with their firm boundaries, authenticity, and the fact they are not impressed with the Narcissist. They are not afraid of the Narcissist. They speak the truth. They are happy. They love themselves and they love life. But above all, they can spot toxicity and stay away from it. As such, the Narcissist has no power.
Ok, that is it for today. As usual, I hope this was beneficial, please do share wherever you can. Many thanks for reading.
Read More: What Happens When a Narcissist Loses Control Over You.
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