4. Do not lose hope.
And finally, the last tip will be to not lose hope. Don’t think there are no more good people out there. Yes, we are surrounded by Narcissists and other toxic people, but there are still caring, genuine people around. Of course, we need to tread more carefully but do not think you will not cross paths with someone who can truly love you and respect you the way you deserve.
Also, do not lose hope in yourself thinking the Narcissist has taken your best years and you have nothing left to give because once there is life in your body you can learn to take care of yourself, love yourself, and find a passion for living. We cannot let the Narcissist win. We have to live, learn and move on.
I know certain things are easier said than done but it is possible. You have to want it with all your might and be determined not to give up. As the saying goes, “Never give up, never surrender”, especially to a Narcissist. Try and be the best you can be post-narcissist.
Recommended Book: Healing from Hidden Abuse: A Journey Through the Stages of Recovery from Psychological Abuse.
But to recap, the 4 things you should not do post-Narcissist are: Do not obsess over the Narcissist. Do not believe the lies of the Narcissist or accept full blame. Do not start a new relationship too soon, and Do not lose hope.
Narcissistic Relationships can change our outlook on life and people. They can also alter our behaviors or personality. But as negative as the experience may have been, there are always lessons to be learned. And that is why self-reflection is very important so that we can spot any negative changes, undo any damage and strengthen our defenses so that we do not fall prey to another Narcissist.
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Read more: Top 5 Signs It’s Time to Leave the Narcissist
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