4. You have a mindset of “all about them”.
Spending your time pleasing your narcissistic partner is the number one priority in your life. You try to do everything for them but you are never appreciated enough. Narcissists may let you do things that are against your will if it serves them, and since you are so in love with them, you will find ways to do it. If you try to reason with them, they will throw tantrums, making you look like the oppressor.
At the end of the day, you still do whatever they ask just to maintain harmony. At this point, you need to start changing your mindset for you to live a meaningful life. Does your partner respect your boundaries?
A Book: Malignant Self-Love: Narcissism Revisited– by Sam Vaknin.
3. You stop thinking straight.
Have you thought about never caring about what happens to you anymore? Being too much in love with a person, especially a narcissist, will make you lose your thoughts of your well-being and advantage. This is the port where narcissists take advantage of your good attributes for their benefit. You will then start to prioritize your narcissistic partner’s needs over yours.
In this situation, you will not get any reward from them no matter how hard you try. So you better start thinking about yourself from now on. Are you still prioritizing your narcissistic partner over your own needs?
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