1. Treats you with contempt and disgust
Now, this might sound obvious to some people, but unfortunately, if you have been subjected to a lifetime of narcissistic abuse, being treated with contempt and disgust is likely just a normal part of your day. However, when the narcissist starts treating us with this type of hatred, in my opinion, you have reached a level where there is no return. The damage that is treated with contempt and disgust does to a person’s self-esteem can be devastating.
The reality is the contempt they feel is for themselves that they project onto you. However, the outcome is soul-crushing and spirit destroying for the victim. No one deserves to be treated with contempt and disgust, ever period.
So if this is how the narcissist is treating you, it’s time that you start planning your escape.
2. Their loyalty seems to be reserved for everyone but you
When the narcissist puts everyone before you. When their priorities revolve around everyone else but you, it’s time to call it quits. Narcissists gain tons of narcissistic supply from triangulating other people, unfortunately, and they enjoy watching people that love them, except less and less from them, while they expect more and more out of you. However, when they fail to show you any loyalty, then chances are they have no intention of spontaneously becoming loyal to you sometime in the future.
When all forms of loyalty are gone, it’s time for you to be loyal to yourself and to your future, and leave the narcissist.
Continue reading on the next page
Sharing is caring!
