3. Smear you to others.
Narcissists have no problem showing up in playacting, pretending that all is well, while they simultaneously smear you to smithereens the moment your back is turned. And it doesn’t matter the relationship dynamic, narcissistic parents do this to the children they can’t succeed in manipulating, dominating, or controlling. And of course, narcissistic in-laws jump at the chance to do this as quickly as possible, unless anyone else in the family sees the newcomer or outsider in a favorable light. Now, that wouldn’t do, would it?
Narcissistic siblings as well as narcissistic relatives, friends, bosses, ex-lovers, and spouses do this all the time and mainly, to cover up their own horrific relationship crimes. The bottom line is, narcissists need to be in a position of perceived superiority, dominance, and control. And although attractive and compelling in the early stages of the relationship dynamic, your strength and personal power are going to be very problematic with anyone who lands on the spectrum of destructive narcissism. It’s just a question of time. Why?
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Because you’ll be too difficult or too hard to handle, which is the same thing as saying, not easy to manipulate, dominate, dupe, deceive or control. And the reality is, people who are seen as being too strong by the narcissist are indeed individuals who are not easily swayed by the opinions of others, they’re confident, boundaried, self-reliant, and clear individuals who are personally developed enough to be living sovereign lives, independent of the kind of nonsense the narcissist tends to bring to the table.
They think for themselves, act for themselves, feel for themselves, trust themselves, and therefore, rely on their own good judgment as well as being grounded in their own good opinion of themselves as opposed to going through life, seeking approval and validation from outside of themselves. And needless to say, this is not exactly what the narcissist is looking for when it comes to someone to play their sick little games with.
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